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What I Wish I’d Known in College

Happy Monday, everyone! As you can imagine, I spent this weekend thinking a lot about the New York Times Magazine cover story, “What Is It About 20-Somethings?” I’ve submitted a Letter to the Editor and will post it here if the Times doesn’t publish it. In the meantime, I’d love to hear your comments here or on Twitter.

In the meantime, on to my newest post. Looking forward to your comments!


What I Wish I’d Known in College

As someone who spends my days interacting with college students and thinking about their career prospects, I often think back to my own days on campus. I’ll admit that I experience a mix of nostalgia, relief and regret. I enjoyed college, but I also struggled to find direction during those four years.

While I know I can’t change the past — and my struggles transitioning from college to career led me to the work that I do now — there are definitely some things I would have done differently. For what it’s worth, here are three things I wish I’d known in college that I know now, in my 30s:

1. Great teachers and mentors are rarer than you think. I wish I’d taken classes in college based solely on the amazingness of the professors, regardless of the subject of the classes they taught. If there is a “star” teacher at your school, take his or her class, even if you just audit it from the back row. No matter what that person teaches, his or her passion will inspire you and may open your eyes to something you never previously considered.

Read the rest of this post on my “College to Career” blog at MyPath.com…

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Guest Post: Turn a Career Break into a Career Booster

Special to the Lindsey Pollak Blog

When the three of us – Jennifer Baggett, Holly Corbett and Amanda Pressner – decided to quit our Manhattan media jobs to embark on a yearlong, round-the-world journey, we knew that it would be the opportunity of a lifetime, and one that we couldn’t possibly have passed up.

But still, we couldn’t help but wonder if perhaps we’d be committing career suicide. It had taken us over a half a decade to start feeling as if we’d achieved success within our industries, and we certainly didn’t want to tarnish our professional reputations after years of dedication by appearing to our bosses as unfocused drifters.

Our fears turned out to be unfounded: Our trip actually made us more valuable to prospective employers—and all three of us received offers almost immediately upon return. And, because of the attention garnered by our travel blog, LostGirlsWorld.com, our career break opened up the door for a book deal to write a memoir about our career break, The Lost Girls: Three friends. Four continents. One unconventional detour around the world.

Sure, the job market was in a bit better shape back then, but even with today’s tough economic climate, there are three simple ways you can use your career break to help you get (re)hired:

1. Expand Your Skill Set. Make a list before you go of all the skills you wish you had, and then brainstorm ways to acquire them. If you think learning more about digital and social media is important for your field, what better way to illustrate to prospective employers how adept you are than to start your own blog documenting adventures? If you’re interested in picking up some medical experience, try volunteering at a clinic so you can see if its something you’d really enjoy.

Being bilingual (or at least able to carry on a conversation in another language) makes you more marketable to employers across many fields. You don’t have to sign up for language school to score conversational Spanish — a month spent in Latin America seeking out friendly locals with a phrasebook can be better than a classroom. Be sure to remember to add all of your new skills acquired during your time off to your resume.

2. Never Stop Networking. A huge upside to being out of the office is that you have so many more opportunities to meet people when you’re out in the world compared to when you’re tied to your desk. We encountered so many different professionals traveling who have helped us out, from writers and teachers to lawyers and environmentalists.

Try making it a priority to go to events for things you’re passionate about, whether that’s visiting a photography exhibit or a farmer’s market, and leave yourself open to meeting new people. If you’re staying in one place, start a book or cooking club and ask your contacts to invite one person each outside your social circle. Have personal cards printed up with your name, phone number, and email address so it’s easy to slip a new acquaintance a card instead of awkwardly fumbling around for a pen and paper. You never know if that person might be your ticket to a new job or career track!

3. Return Recharged. Potential employers can usually sense burnout right from the start — that half-dead, glazed look in the eyes of those they interview stemming from years of pushing themselves to hard. Work has a point of diminishing return where the hours you put in doesn’t necessarily payoff in productivity after long.

When landing an interview after a career break, don’t worry about your enthusiasm coming across as over-eagerness. Instead, use it your advantage by pointing out that time away from the office has given you time recharge and pinpoint your passions so you’re more than ready to hit the ground running. And the more motivated and energized you are, the better you’ll perform for the company.

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Next 30/20 Vision Podcast: Monday, June 14th

Join us for the next edition of our 30/20 Vision podcast on Monday, June 14th at 5:00pm EST.

This series is for the 20-something woman who wishes she had a couple of big sisters to clue her in on the ins and outs of life after college. This month, Christine Hassler, Alexandra Levit and I will talk about our most important sources of inspiration.

Listen to the podcast here or download later.

Do you have any questions on this topic? Please post in the Comments.

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Podcast: You Have More Time Than You Think

Join me for a conversation with Laura Vanderkam, author of the brand new book, “168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think.”

That number — 168 hours — is the amount of time you have each and every week. According to Laura, that’s plenty of time to work, play, sleep 8 hours a night (seriously!) and accomplish a lot more than you are now. Laura wants to help you spend your 168 hours doing things you love.

Some of my favorite recommendations in the book include:

Track your time. Just like counting calories helps you lose weight, writing down the way you spend your time helps you identify “empty hours” when you’re not doing things that fulfill you. You can download a free time-tracking sheet from Laura’s website.

Read the rest of this post and listen to the podcast on my “College to Career” blog at MyPath.com…

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On MyPath.com: 3 Ways to Make 2010 Your Best Career Year

fireworksI’ve always loved new beginnings — the first day of a new month, the turning of a new season, even the sunrise of a new day (on the rare occasion I’m up early enough to see it). Of course there is no bigger new beginning than the turning of the calendar to January 1.

This year in particular, the New Year feels like a crucial fresh start. 2009 will go down in the books as one of the hardest years ever for job seekers, especially those looking for entry-level work. If you’ve had a tough time in 2009, or even if it’s been a great year for you, here are some tips for starting 2010 on a successful note.

Out With the Old. To make room for new things in your life (a great job, fresh ideas, more money, a strong network, etc.) you need to get rid of any clutter that is weighing you down. This might include critical people, a job that drains your energy, college junk piled in your closet or self-defeating thoughts like “I’ll never get a job in this economy.” For inspiration, check out two of my favorite resources on the topic of simplifying and decluttering: the Zen Habits Blog and Julie Morgenstern’s book, Shed Your Stuff, Change Your Life.

Set Quality (not Quantity) Goals. We all know that New Year’s resolutions are generally forgotten by February. So, instead of making a long list of “rules” for my year, I prefer to declare three to five big goals or priorities. I keep them in a little note file on my computer and on a little card pasted on the inside cover of the notebook I use every day. I peek at my list constantly to remind myself what my priorities are, how I want to spend my time and what opportunities I should not pursue. If you need help clarifying your goals, check out Your Best Year Yet! Ten Questions for Making the Next Twelve Months Your Most Successful Ever.

Read the rest of this blog post on my “College to Career” blog on MyPath.com

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New CareerTV Video: Post Grad — the Movie and the Reality

postgradWelcome to the second installment of a new regular video segment with my friends at CareerTV. I’ll be chatting via Skype each week with host Sean O’Grady about timely career issues.

In this week’s episode, we talk about the recently released film Post Grad. The movie stars former Gilmore Girl Alexis Bledel as a recent college grad who is forced to move back home with her family while she attempts to find a job and a direction for her life (a plot that probably sounds pretty familiar right now).

Watch the four-minute video here.

Have questions you’d like us to address in future CareerTV segments? Please share in the comments section below!

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Survival tips for moving back in with mom and dad

homesweethome1.jpgAccording to research company Twentysomething Inc., up to 65 percent of 2009 college graduates are slated to return home upon graduation. Although not the ideal choice for many young people, it’s a smart option if you don’t have the means to support yourself and your parents are willing to put a roof over your head for a while.

I lived at home for a few months after graduate school and, frankly, I didn’t handle it very well. I spent a lot of time sulking in my childhood bedroom-heart-design wallpaper, prom photos and all-and fell into an “I’m a failure” funk. Eventually, I set up some networking lunches, had a few sessions with a career counselor and landed a job and an apartment on my own.

In retrospect, I wish I had handled the situation a lot better. I wish I’d treated that time as as a positive opportunity rather than a post-college purgatory. If you find yourself in a similar situation, here are some tips-a.k.a. what I wish I had done when I moved back in with mom and dad:

1. Communicate early and often. If you have a good enough relationship to move back home after graduation, you should have a good enough relationship to talk openly with your parent or parents about your expectations for living together again. For instance, discuss up front whether you’ll be expected to come home at a certain time, whether you’ll need to ask permission to have guests over and what you’ll be expected to contribute to the household in money or chores. (more…)

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Guest Post: Tips for re-entering the job market after a major illness

everything_changes_cover_fixedcolor_greener.jpgI’m pleased to share an important guest post from Kairol Rosenthal, the author of Everything Changes: The Insider’s Guide To Cancer in Your 20s and 30s.  Kairol was diagnosed with cancer at age 27. Today she is a healthcare blogger and patient advocate working with national cancer organizations including Gilda’s Club, Planet Cancer, and I’m Too Young For This. Visit her blog here.

From the Big Apple to the Bible Belt, I interviewed dozens of young adult cancer patients  for my new book, Everything Changes: The Insider’s Guide To Cancer in Your 20s and 30s.  I heard repeatedly that the most challenging time for young adults facing this disease was post-treatment, when the predictable regimen of their chemo schedules peeled away and they were catapulted back into the reality of the work world.

The following tips are useful not just for cancer patients, but for anyone who is young and job searching after facing major health issues.

Create Two Timelines.  Differentiate between your short-term and long-term job goals.  Having a short-term career goal at a second-choice job may help you to pay off medical debts or build your resume.  Brainstorm a list of short-term jobs that have transferable skills relating to your long-term dream job.

Volunteer.  Diving into the work world can be taxing on your body after a long break from the daily grind.  Consider seeking a part-time volunteer job.  Volunteering is a great way to help readjust to the mental and physical routine of work while also boosting your resume.

Build Confidence.  Feelings of inadequacy can be a barrier to success in an interview and in the workplace. Believe in your capabilities; if you don’t you cannot expect an employer to.  It is normal to have trepidation about re-entering the workforce after facing a major illness.  Talk about your feelings with a therapist or social worker so they don’t interfere with how you present yourself to future employers.

Engage An Expert.  There is no one-size fits all remedy to resume writing and interviewing after you have been absent from school or work due to illness.  Whether to disclose your illness to an employer and how to hide gaps on your resume depends on your personality, your communication style, your field of work, the size of the company, and the perceived atmosphere of the workplace in question.  Seek the help of a social worker with extensive experience in career counseling for people with disabilities. Work together to create an individualized approach that reflects your specific career goals and work history.

Dress Rehearsal.  Should you and a counselor decide it is appropriate to disclose your illness to a prospective employer, practice your answer out loud, make your explanation brief, and end on a positive note by enforcing your skills and what you bring to the job.

Have you ever faced an illness that hindered your confidence in the work world?  How did you readjust to the transition?  What worked and what didn’t? Please share!

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30/20 Vision Podcast: Next episode Wednesday at 2:00pm ET

Tune in to the next episode of my radio show and podcast, 30/20 Vision on Wednesday, February 18th, at 2PM ET.  As a reminder, this series is for the 20-something who wishes she had a couple of big sisters to clue her in on the ins and outs of life after college. This month, my co-hosts Christine Hassler (20 Something Manifesto) and Alexandra Levit (How’d You Score That Gig?) and I will talk about how to manage immediate family relationships once you’re “all grown up.”

We hope you’ll join us live or check out the replay.

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Should you go to grad school?

grad_school2_090112_mn1.jpgTo go to grad school or not to go to grad school, that is the question for many graduating college students — especially during a recession. I wish I could give you the absolute right answer, but I can’t.

The decision is personal and different for everyone. What I can do is provide you with the right questions to ask to make the right move for you.

Read the rest of this post at ABC News on Campus…

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